Grey Cells Speak

unanimous(might not be completely but at least for most of
the points)

Now, I think this is an engineering concept rather than rationale... you see ... you are more of an engineer rather than rationale person ... more closer to reality, seeking relationship and ready to make it work ..now thats what I call thoughtful love not with rationality..... equivalent to sacrifice.... it comes from heart not from mind ...

What we speak/think is a very very complicated phenomenon.

what was this love or doing science or as i'd say an accounting transaction...though i dont believe in the typical emotion called love but come on you making it sound as if its an unbalanced chemical equation and u putting in the balances

on seconds thoughts you are right...thats the best way not to be hurt :D

ok...sorry i didnt know dat...

:D well now i call it the reaction of a guy hit low on emotions with confusion trying to bring some semblance back in his definition of love or that emotion :D

its like not interconnected...but interlinked by the same feeling... For I dont believe in love, the people around me who do and claim to be in love think its undefined, its an emotion but left unexpressed just felt... And what i have learnt is no emotion is forever... relations never end, but emotions change... so u can never define love or find its meaning, is what i think...and when one tries to define it u hit a low spot in life thats when u evaluate this emotion...well i thought u had done the same as i had...

Well I havent ever been in love, so to say what i thought in my a relation to be love could be companionship... this post was a tribute to the experiences of the people around me, my friends, family etc...:D
Love's all around u...we love are family we love our friends, but how could u love a person u have hardly met or u know bewilders me :D...

Nope u were neither undermining, nor cutting my remarks... ur posts yes... ur comments intrigue me...very honestly u understand a lot but withhold a lot to... so if u dont mind my saying, yes ur comments intrigue me... wat abt u?

comment on my silent spectator:
Ok fine being brutally frank to u, I admit San is a real person. San is jsut a plain unlucky person who in the walk of life hasnt really met a true friend, and maybe and y maybe it must be san who is to blame. Because its easier to find fault in one than many. And yes expectations hurt, hence San doesnt expect anything anymore. She just accepts what comes her way coz its safer than being hurt.
You have been lucky, and appreciate it, coz' u r blessed. U know at times its like strange that i mean how could u find comfort in others but u do...
My take? well have given so many arguments and counter-arguments :D to prove my take

Hey its completely ok, I really appreciate ur comments, so no sweat at all...
All my posts are my perceptions, my point of views, coz' i can only write abt my feelings...
Its like for me this is the theory, derived from numerous hypothesis, but few case studies..:D
I somehow don't buy the explanation u gave me... It somehow seems that u want to say a lot, and put it in so many words but with hold for some reason known to u. It doesnt seem as if u use less words..

No comments u r bang on target, but i really hadnt meant it to be discussed, coz not many ppl do, but it thrills me when ppl do bother...coz then am not completely a psycho ;)